Category Archives: Relationships

Sister Rivalry

A friend of mine threw a costume party recently and I bought an outfit online to wear (dumb move).  When it arrive and I tried it on, it was immediately apparent that it wasn’t gonna work.  So, I offered it … Continue reading

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Let’s Not Get Greedy, Now

Yesterday I overheard two girls talking in line at a cafe, and one said, in a cavalier tone, “I mean… JUST because I’m engaged, doesn’t mean I HAVE to marry him!” Um………..it doesn’t? I posted this on Facebook and got … Continue reading

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Ready to Rumble? – Body Talk

What is your body telling people that you’re not? Did you realize that only a SMALL percentage of communication actually occurs with our words? The rest is communicated with para-linguistic (non-verbal) cues, like facial expressions, posture, eye movements, etc. It … Continue reading

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Ready to Rumble? – People Aren’t the Problem

One of the first steps in the art of negotiation is to “separate the people from the problem.”  Put aside the relational issues and focus on the substance/content. Easy, right?  Ha! How in the WORLD do you tease out the … Continue reading

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Ready to Rumble? – Know Thyself

One of the first steps in becoming a better fighter is increasing self-awareness. Wow… this really rings of a wax-on-wax-off kinda talk, doesn’t it, grasshopper? Imagine any scenario where you’ve had friction with someone… inevitably the human instinct is to … Continue reading

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Ask Sarah – Rebounding

Dear Sarah, How can you avoid becoming someone’s rebound? Well, let’s define our terms first.  Because when most people use the term “rebound,” they don’t just mean the person someone dates right after coming out of a long-term relationship.  There’s … Continue reading

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Are You Ready to Rumble?

Let’s talk about fighting! One of the dumbest things people say (and I hear this ALL the time), is:  “I just really HATE conflict.” DUH!  I can’t stand when I hear people say this because it’s usually a way of … Continue reading

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Ask Sarah – Emotional Safety

Dear Sarah, “What does it MEAN to feel “safe?” A lot of women use that phrase, but I’m never quite sure what they mean?” Fantastic question!  Talking about this kind of stuff is my jam – I love it. I’d … Continue reading

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Dating at the Baggage Claim

Men are like waffles. Or, wait…they’re from Mars and I’m from Venus, right? Or is it that finding one is like picking out shoes? Well, today – I contend that picking the right man or woman is a lot like waiting on … Continue reading

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Let’s Get REAL…like the housewives

Ok, I admit it – I’m about to recycle and old post on you guys.  But a have a really good reason… I’m out of ideas.   HA ha!! As if! I have more ideas than I’ll probably EVER get … Continue reading

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